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Showing posts with label pregnancy. Show all posts

To Do....

Time sure flies! My date with the stork is next month already! Sometimes I really feel that this pregnancy seems to be quicker than my first one -- maybe because I'm busier this time around? I just realized that there are so many things I have to do that have to be done before my little one makes her appearance. I've decided to make lists to remind and prompt me...

Things to look for and clean:

  • newborn clothes -- tiesides and frogsuits - ok
  • stroller - ok
  • crib - ok
  • receiving blankets -ok
  • socks - ok
  • mittens - ok
  • feeding bottles
  • breast pump
  • sterilizer
  • nursing clothes
  • breastfeeding pillow
  • extra baby book
  • gauze lampins
  • bath tub - ok
  • Launder / clean all clothes and baby stuff!!!

Things to do:
  • organize Philhealth papers
  • check benefits with SSS
  • inform patients about my leave
  • look for another yaya for new baby
  • decide on maternity leave length
  • decide on date for Cesarean
  • look for Pedia to catch the baby (my pedia is on leave)
  • put away Ethan's old clothes
  • organize room

Things to buy:
  • newborn diapers
  • baby toiletries -- baby wash, baby oil, petroleum jelly
  • BPA free feeding bottles - bought a few already
  • another mattress?
  • girl clothes for going out - bought a few already
Whew! There's still so much to do! Better start soon! Well, at least some of the stuff I already have--especially the big ticket items like the stroller and crib and sterilizer -- so I get to save some money :).

Pregnant or Plus Sized?

While I've been quite slim for most of my life, I noticed that my dress size has increased throughout the years. I used to be an XS in my teens, then S in my early twenties, M in my late twenties, and now I'm hovering between M and L! The years and childbearing have certainly taken their toll. Good thing it's not too obvious yet! Now I'm pregnant again. I've found that it's easier (and cheaper) for me to just buy or borrow Plus Size Women’s Clothing instead of buying strictly maternity clothes which I will only use for a few months' time at the most. I don't know why, but things marked "maternity" seems to be more expensive too. My tummy is so big that I have to use the larger maternity sizes anyway. And from my experience from my firstborn, it does take a while for me to look like I did before pregnancy.

Would you believe that the following are plus size clothing?

Looks fab, right? :D Unlike the unstylish clothes that plus size women were forced to wear before, just because there were not enough choices!

We are certainly blessed with a lot more choices for nice clothing, even if we are not blessed with model thin figures.

Preggy Shoes

The last trimester of my pregnancy has made me quite awkward in my movements. My tummy is definitely bigger than the average almost 7-monther, and my center of gravity has shifted forward, which results in sort of a waddling gait and awkward movements. The added weight has also put a lot of work on my poor feet. I need comfy shoes! But since I go to work, I need shoes that are comfortable enough to make walking with my added weight a breeze BUT stylish enough to pair with my office clothes. Definitely something that would match most of my maternity wardrobe please!

I'm currently coveting a pair of tory burch reva which seems to fit the bill. They look so comfortable! And they look more stylish than the current rubber clogs that I'm wearing and which I chose for its comfort rather than its style. The colors are so nice too, just right for the summer weather!

Unfortunately, I do not know any store here in the Philippines which carry this brand and type of shoe (or maybe I just don't go out too much!) It's fortunate that I could actually buy this pair online via Jildor Shoes, which is an online shop for designer shoes for women.

Sexy Preggy

People keep commenting that I look much bigger than the usual 5 month pregnant woman, but most commented that I look nice, actually pretty for a pregnant woman. This really does wonders for my self esteem. I do think that despite the fact that wearing sexy lingerie is the furthest from a pregnant woman's mind since our primary concern now is comfort and practicality (of course things are different if we are not), we could still feel beautiful and sexy even while carrying a new life in our womb.

Of course being pregnant is no excuse for not looking good. It's a good thing preggy clothing nowadays are no longer frumpy and are quite fashion forward. After all, women do deserve to look good at any stage of our lives.

Girl!

In the midst of the week's hectic schedule, I totally forgot to answer the question: Are We Having a Boy or a Girl?

The answer: It's a girl! Of course, unless the baby is actually born, we really are not 100% sure. Anyway, what's important is that my baby looks healthy and normal.

Ultrasound pics are here. :)

We are now looking for E's old baby stuff. What's nice about a second baby is that there are actually a lot of stuff that you can hold off buying, since the old baby stuff are still good and sturdy.

3 and a half months more to go, and we'll be holding another bundle of joy!

The Baby Inside....

Yesterday was a busy day for us. What we did...

  1. Went to the tailor to get measurements for my hubby and son. My son's gonna be a bible bearer and he'll be wearing a suit!
  2. Went to Active Fun for lunch with my in-laws.
  3. Finished up my homework and submitted it ahead of time!
Yesterday's highlight was undergoing my Congenital Anomaly Scan. It's an abdominal ultrasound, just more detailed, to check every part of my baby and try to see if everything's all right. The main reason for this is my age. I'm on the wrong side of thirty (closer to 40) and we just wanna make sure everything's okay.

I'll just post pictures of those images that I can identify. Of course, I'm no expert, but the perinatologist (Dr. Crisologo) pointed out each part to me :).

(You can click on the images to enlarge)


Hi, Baby!
That's the face. :) You can actually make out the nose, the eye sockets and the lips if you use a little imagination.



That's the hand, bunched up into a fist. You can actually count the finger. Of course there are 5! :) Don't ask me though if it's the right or the left coz I really can't tell :).


Foot images! The one on the left is a view from the side.
The foot on the right is in-your-face! You can count the toes. :)



Ok, what do you think?
Is it a baby boy or a baby girl?

Here's a closer look.
Take note of where the arrow is pointing :).

I'll spare you the pictures of the organs, mainly because I can't really tell.

Anyway, the perinatologist assures us that everything about the baby is ok. The estimated weight, cardiac rate, spine, brain, heart, everything that we looked at seems to be telling us that our little child is developing nicely! And that's the most important thing about the ultrasound!

Are We Having a Son or a Daughter?

I'm going to have my ultrasound today.

It's a congenital anomaly scan. We're also going to find out today if I'm having a boy or a girl.

I'm hoping it's a girl, because I already have a boy :). I've also wanted another girl in the family, since I was an only daughter, my siblings both being boys. And since I have already fulfilled the tradition of having a boy, it does not really matter if I have a boy or a girl this time.

But actually it does not matter. My primary concern is whether my baby is healthy and normal. That is much more important than the gender.

Whether it's a boy or a girl, we'll love this child as much as we do our firstborn

Do wish us luck!

Baby Kicking!

I am already 22 weeks pregnant! Time sure flies. I didn't blog about this anymore but my OB advised me to rest because I was having contractions. A pelvic examination she did revealed that I was starting to efface! Oh, no, it's way, way too early.

Thankfully, the contractions have stopped. I had a urinalysis done -- no infection. No cough, no colds, no fever. It must have been stress.

Now, for the happy part! My baby's actively kicking! I've felt some movement some weeks before but I just couldn't be sure that it was the baby, but now, those are definite kicks! Baby kicks are so reassuring for mom. They tell me that my baby is active and doing well. I'm readying myself for stronger kicks when the baby gets even bigger!

Second Trimester

I'm already in my second trimester. From my first pregnancy, I am aware that this is supposed to be the most comfortable month. No more morning sickness (well, evening sickness for me), and I don't feel as awkward yet as in the third trimester.

We'll be having our congenital anomaly scan this coming Monday. We'll also see what gender this baby is. Of course I'd like to have a girl, coz I already have a little boy, but as long as my baby's normal and healthy, it really matter what gender it is.

I just hope that E will be ready to welcome this new sibling without too much fuss.

4 months!

By this weekend, my pregnancy would be on its 20th week. I am so glad that the nausea and the food aversions are gone. I still feel more tired than usual, though. But since hubby spoils me by driving me around, I don't feel anything that isn't manageable, so far.

We were so afraid that my beta hcg level was higher than the usual pregnancy, especially since I had an H. mole before. So my OBGYN requested for another test. Thankfully the level has dropped off sharply.

We will soon be having a congenital anomaly scan. By then, hopefully, we'll also know if we'll be having a boy or a girl. As long as it's healthy, we'd feel very happy already.

The Big News!

We're having another baby!

This is an exciting time for us! Our firstborn is now 3 years old (he'll be almost 4 by the time the baby is born). After a heartbreaking episode last year, we're hoping that this time things will be much much better!

Oh, we already had the results for quite some time but we wanted to wait till we see the heartbeat on the transvaginal ultrasound. And, we got what we prayed for yesterday! :D

Thank you, Lord!

Massage for Expectant Moms

Pregnant moms need pampering, but some people (both patients and masseurs/masseuses alike) are hesitant about massage because of the perceived delicate nature of pregnant women. While it is true that you should not treat a pregnant woman the same as an ordinary person wanting/needing massage, there are actually pregnancy massage techniques which are not only safe, they also help in ensuring that preggy moms get all the relaxation, pampering and other health benefits that they need at this time.

The next time I get pregnant (which I hope is soon!), I would consider buying a pregnancy massage DVD and try to convince or cajole hubby to giving me a pregnancy massage himself. You think he'd agree? After all, we're in this together!

Another massage that I think would benefit a lot is the lactation massage. I had a wonderful breastfeeding experience with my firstborn that I hope I would be able to duplicate with my second. But I'm also aware that if ever we do get our longed for second child, it would be a little more stressful since we have to give attention to both kids, unlike with one who has our full, undivided attention. I know that stress could affect milk supply too. With all the melamine scare around, it's still going to point out that mother's milk is still the best.

Pregnancy Thoughts

I actually felt most beautiful when I was pregnant. Maybe because I was very happy then and very excited to become a mother. I was probably reflecting that "glow" that people talked about because people also commented that I looked great during that time. It helped that I still looked slim everywhere else except my tummy, which was a large one leading the way for me wherever I go! It was so big that at 6 months, I looked like moms in their 9th month! So you could imaging how I looked like during my 9th month. But all through this time, I didn't look pregnant when you see me from the back :).

During my first pregnancy, most of the maternity clothes I used were borrowed from my aunt. My mother and mother-in-law also bought me some pieces. I also bought a couple of maternity pants. Most of the maternity wear I used then were practical pieces which I can use everyday when I go to work. I didn't have too many maternity dresses then so when my husband and I were invited to a friend's wedding, I begged off because I literally have nothing to wear and it's quite difficult to find formal clothes for pregnant women. Next time I get pregnant, I'll buy 1 or 2 dressier pieces for such occasions.

Because I had H. mole last year, our plans to have a second baby was postponed. We finally got our clearance from my gynecologist to have a second baby! Now, hoping for baby#2 :D.

I came to know some Chinese superstitions about pregnancy and childbirth during the course of my own pregnancy and after giving birth. Some of them sounded weird to me, but since my mother insisted and I was watched over closely, I have to follow those that I believed did no harm anyway.

These are a few of them:

  • A pregnant woman should not attend wakes or funerals.
  • A pregnant woman should avoid going to weddings so as not to rob the newlyweds of their good luck.
  • A pregnant woman should drink special herbal soups to ensure the safety of her baby.
  • After giving birth, the new mother should not take a bath, or shower, or shampoo for at least a month. As much as possible, she should not leave the house, or be exposed to wind, because these would make her body weak and she will be prone to arthritis in the future.
  • The new mother should eat "hot" foods to balance the energies. It is believed that childbirth with its blood loss makes the body "cold".
  • People should avoid praising babies, because these would attract demons and ghosts who would bring harm upon the baby. Hence, unfavorable terms should be used.
I know Tsinoy mothers would find it hard not to follow these, since their mothers and mothers-in-law (if they were Chinese) would watch them like a hawk to ensure that tradition is followed. I just consoled myself with the fact that these are temporary and my mother was only thinking of my welfare and that of my baby. :)

Part II...Hydatidiform mole

(Link to part I)

Although the situation is kinda depressing, we had to accept it. The dilatation and curettage at least gave a sort of closure...or so we thought.

After my D&C, I still continued to bleed. I still had nausea and vomiting, and I still detest the smell of garlic and other strong smelling foods. In short, I still feel like I was in my early pregnancy. Well, I just had my D&C, so my HCG (human chorionic gonadotrophin) was probably still high, accounting for the nausea, vomiting and anorexia. Slight vaginal bleeding or spotting is also common after undergoing D&C. My follow up 10 days after seem to be ok. There was nothing untoward noted during the transvaginal ultrasound. There was still blood, but it was not an unusual finding for a post D&C.

My OB and I both expected that the bleeding and symptoms would most likely fade away in time...But 1 month after my D&C, I was still having the same symptoms. Also, my tummy still looks pregnant. On follow up, a repeat TVS showed some cystic spaces. My OB also noted that my uterus looks a little larger than it should be. She ran a pregnancy test. Lo and behold! It was weakly positive! That's at one month post D&C. She requested for a serum B-HCG to be done at St. Luke's Medical Center. Result: 324,000! (Normal is up to 6 only.)

When the B-HCG results came out very high, she had me undergo blood tests and other lab works. She was already thinking of a trophoblastic disease, either hydatidiform mole, invasive mole or choriocarcinoma!

Since the ultrasound in my OB's clinic is low resolution, she asked me to have a higher resolution ultrasound with doppler at PGH. Results of this ultrasound leaned more towards a hydatidiform mole rather than a choriocarcinoma. Whew! However, unless we had a biopsy, we can't be totally sure yet.

With all the results in hand, we went to see a trophoblastic disease specialist. She was referred to us by our original obstetrician. She confirmed that I was suffering from a trophoblastic disease. Since it looked more of hydatidiform mole rather than the more malignant (but still very highly curable choriocarcinoma), battle plan would be to do a suction curettage to remove the mass. Since the level of my serum beta HCG was very high, she also deemed it prudent for me to have prophylactic chemotherapy.

My husband and I went to PGH on the morning of September 9, 2007, hoping to get a private room. None were available except for the ward. We opted to wait. I really wanted privacy and am willing to wait and pay a higher price for it, but more importantly, I had to be isolated since I will be undergoing chemotherapy and my immunity will be compromised with the drugs. We had to go home first. We just called and grabbed the first room that was available. Good thing it was a Sunday and there was not much traffic.

That evening, laminaria was inserted in my cervix to help it dilate and prepare it for the suction curettage. I was then put on complete bed rest with NO bathroom privileges--had to use the bedpan. I was totally dependent on my husband's assistance in everything because I was not supposed to leave the bed. I also had my brother pick up 2 units of type A+ blood from Children's Medical Center. My family all had type O (except for my late father and my toddler son) so they can't donate to me, and for some reason it was so hard to find type A blood! Some hospitals had more type AB than type A! Imagine, I even called up the Philippine National Red Cross and they also ran out of type A!

It took more than 24 hours for my cervix to dilate to the point that it was deemed necessary for the suction tip to be inserted. Just lying in bed for that period of time was definitely boring. Good thing there was cable TV. :) Oh, and since I had to be prepared to go into surgery anytime, I was only allowed light meals after an examination would show that cervix was not yet okay, then nothing by mouth after the light meal. While waiting, I was already started on the first dose of chemotherapy (which was supposed to be for 5 days) injected intramuscularly. I was also hooked to the IV since I won't be eating much while waiting.

Finally! On the morning of September 11, 2007, I was ready to undergo the procedure. Since PGH is a high volume hospital, though, I had to wait a while because the delivery rooms were all occupied. September is really a peak month for new babies. :) Well, they started blood transfusion already while I was waiting since we're expecting blood loss from the procedure.

Once there was a vacancy, I was brought to one of the delivery rooms. Spinal anesthesia was administered, I was then put in the lithotomy position (like a mom about to give birth), prepped and draped.

For about the first hour and a half of the procedure, I was awake. My gynecologist and the other doctors in the room (I include myself here) had a scare moment when she did not seem to get any tissue that looked like the grapelike cysts found in hydatidiform mole. She had some tissue sent to the pathology lab for frozen section. That's because she was thinking that it might be choriocarcinoma! Yikes! If that happens, we can't go on with the curettage coz we have a different treatment plan if that is the case! Good thing the path results came out as placental fragments. No malignant cells. Whew!

Because she had difficulty with my case, she called in a sonologist to help out. Turns out that my case was a partial mole and not a complete one, and the characteristic grapelike cysts were facing AWAY from the cervix. What's facing the cervix was the smooth portion of placental tissue. No wonder! There was some technical difficulty in removing the whole thing because of this, hence the surgery took longer than expected. They finally had to knock me out since the spinal was starting to lose its effect and I am starting to feel something.

Next thing I knew, I was already in the recovery room with A LOT of other patients. I was still high from the sedatives and was seeing things move around in circles and psychedelic patterns. I vomited. I was cold. I was in a bad temper and like a spoiled child, kept asking when I could go out to my own room.

Finally, I was brought to my room. I had a moderate fever, probably because of dehydration. It went away as soon as I was able to drink a substantial amount of fluids and the IV fluids were increased. I was given antibiotics as a precaution though.

I was given the needed doses of chemotherapy the next few days. I went home on the evening of September 13, 2007.

More info on Hydatidiform mole here.

The aftermath in the next post!

We're having a baby! (Or so we thought...)

July 10, 2007....Pregnancy test turned positive! Since our son Ethan is already 22 months, we were more than ready to welcome a new bundle of joy. We were already trying to count the days when our baby will be due and trying to imagine our life with a baby and a toddler.

I was not very sure of my last menstrual period, though, since I wasn't very regular at that time. I got my period back only last January (after 16 months of breastfeeding and 9 months of pregnancy before that!) My OB advised me to undergo a transvaginal ultrasound even if it was still early so that we can age the pregnancy.

July 18, 2007....I underwent transvaginal ultrasound. The estimated gestational age was about 5 weeks (less than what we expected if we base it on a last menstrual period of May 20, 2007). The gestational sac was seen, but there is no yolk sac or embryonic pole.

My OB assured me that since my pregnancy was still early, the yolk sac and embryonic pole may take a while to appear on the ultrasound. So she advised me to get another TVS the next week.

While waiting for the second TVS, I already started to feel the early symptoms of pregnancy: nausea, vomiting, sensitive sense of smell...These are all expected. What was not expected was when I started to have spotting the day before I was scheduled to have the 2nd TVS. I was advised bed rest and prescribed Duphaston and Duvadilan in an attempt to save my pregnancy.

July 25, 2007....Second transvaginal ultrasound. Estimated gestational age around 6 weeks. Still no yolk sac or embryonic pole. The sonologist has already signed it out as a nonviable pregnancy.

My OB, however, wanted to be sure before proceeding with the D&C (dilatation and curettage), so we waited another week to have another TVS. If there is still no yolk sac or embryonic pole, it's likely a blighted ovum and we'll have the D&C done by then.

Still nauseous, still spotting, and getting more depressed by the day....

August 1, 2007....Third transvaginal ultrasound. Estimated gestational age around 5 weeks! The gestational sac shrunk! Not only that, there is still no yolk sac, no embryonic pole! At a pregnancy estimated to be 7 weeks when based on the first TVS and 10 weeks when based on last menstrual period. There was no doubt that this was a non-viable pregnancy. We had the D&C done the same day and stayed overnight in the hospital.

More information on blighted ovum.

To be continued on next post....